There’s something so magnetic about a clear and open mind. When we drop all the head-chatter, the universe has a way of providing us with just what we need, at the time we need it.
And that’s good news if you’re trying to attract a partner!
New Love in a New City
The first time I met the man who would later become my husband, I didn’t have an inkling as to what would transpire between us. I was 18 years old at the time, and had just moved from Northern California to Boston, Massachusetts, to attend college.
I was quite high on life. In a whole new city that was ripe for exploration. In awe of all the newness around me, I felt almost unstoppable.
Everywhere I looked, there was another opportunity to fall in love.
Whether it was with some charming street, lined with brownstones; or some dimly lit restaurant, full of clinking glasses and buzzing conversation, I was hooked. So much so that I surrendered completely to the present moment, allowing myself to be eaten up by the mystique of all my unfamiliar surroundings.
I didn’t realize it then, but allowing myself to delve into that zone — that zone where past and future become non-existent; that zone where joy overcomes and time gets distorted — was a living and breathing meditation.
Be Open to Receive
It’s no wonder that I met my future husband in the midst of this precious and vibratory time.
The aliveness catapulted me into the present moment, clearing my mind completely, revitalizing all my senses, allowing me a glimpse into the glow that animates all of nature. In this way, I believe that I was ready to receive this amazing man who I was to spend the rest of my life with.
When we’re open to what this moment has in store for us, without trying to force or control the flow of things, we can truly receive what we are meant to receive.
You only need to embody love in order for it to find you. And I’m not suggesting you move to a new city to jumpstart your aliveness! Start right where you are.
Here’s a simple meditation for you
As you go about your day, allow your heart to guide you.
Use all your senses, but use them through the heart. Look at a glowing sunset with your heart, not just your eyes.
Speak words of support and love with your heart, not just your mouth. Hear the sounds of children playing in the street with your heart, not just your ears.
Then you will have so much love inside of you that it will be spilling out in all directions. Then all the senses will come to life, and everything will meet you with the kiss of absolute ecstasy.
It is an ecstasy that sustains and guides and nurtures and supports. It is an ecstasy that will guide you toward self-love, toward building enduring friendships, toward radiating warmth in all of your interactions.
And, of course, if you’re single, it just might lead you to that someone you’ve been waiting for!
I invite you to take action and use this meditation today.
Also, in the comment section below, please let us know… What do you love about yourself?
I’m a big fan of Self-Love, so let’s spread it and hope it catches on like wildfire!